Monday, October 7, 2013

Parents Day, and more adventures in African coifure


Since the 3rd term started Sept. 9, much attention has been devoted at my school to preparation for “Speech and Prize Giving Day,” (pretty much like Parent Day at Graland, although there were some differences) which occurred last Friday, October 4. More than 300 parents assembled in a large tent erected on the School grounds. The program was scheduled for 9 and got under way around 9:45. The Chief of the County and his entourage and also the Ministry of Education Guest Speaker and other national administrators arrived around 11. The students demonstrated their skills in reciting poetry (pre-school) and reciting in french (4th grade). Awards of 1st, 2nd and 3rd position were given for academic excellence, and also awards for cleanliness.

Towards the end of the program, around 2 PM, after speeches and entertainment by drum majorettes, choirs, a fashion show from the Home Economics class, and more, some of the older children did the traditional high-kicking dance, dressed in the skirt-like wrap that is their traditional wear (we posted a picture of Katherine attempting this dance from our July visit to the reconstructed “cultural village.”) At the school presentation, I am quite sure that some of these topless performers, including the one in the center of the picture, in the front row, closest to the camera, were 12 to 14 year-old girls. (For those of you feverishly searching our earlier blogs, Phumi was not topless in our earlier post. Anyway, not that day.) Girls wear long dresses, always below the knee, any time they are in any formal gathering, typically over a pair of tights or trousers, because apparently a woman's thighs are to be concealed, but these young women perform topless in front of their classmates and parents, and no one sees any incongruity. I guess its just what you are used to, or what you look for. Or something.
On an uncharacteristically cool and overcast Monday morning, with the never-ending wind, we walked up to a Neighborhood Care Point (“NCP”), one of 3 such locations within 3 kilometers of us, where volunteer moms cook and distribute food to between a dozen and 30 children 5 and under (over 5 would get at least one meal a day in school.), when food is available. They have these NCPs throughout the country, I believe. No child under 6 is turned away, I believe, but the target is Orphans and Vulnerable Children, especially those within “child-headed” homesteads. The food is distributed by the World Food Program, but WFP has told us they will terminate all food distribution here in December, 2013, because funding has run out. Since the US is typically a major funder of such programs, we suspect a change in US giving is threatening that devastating result here. The picture shows the unroofed enclosure where the Makes cook and serve the corn meal, enriched with powdered milk. The children bring the plastic buckets to the NCP, where the women help the children wash the buckets, which are about to be filled with corn meal, to be taken home and eaten. Usually they also serve beans, but beans take a long time to cook, and they did not get started in time.
Last Wednesday we went into Manzini, the nation's commercial center, with 2 missions: buying lighting; and getting Katherine's hair cut. Manzini has the only store we've been able to find that carries table and other lamps; Swazis don't read much at home, it seems, and go to bed early from all I can tell (but they stay up to watch Generations, a South African soap opera along the lines of Dynasty, I think – but more repetitive, and angry, and not as well acted, if you can imagine that), so apparently they have no need for lamps. We did, and bought the place out.

But no such luck on finding someone willing to cut a white person's hair. That's not racist – our hair is demonstrably different. (An 18th century Swazi king had a dream telling him to welcome the pale people with hair like cows' tails who would come with a book and coins; the dream told him they should take the book – the Bible, which they certainly did – and reject the coins; they are re-thinking the latter part of the dream.) No one in town would take on cutting Katherine's hair, except for one salon that wanted $US 18, which we certainly weren't going to pay – we're volunteers! So on Saturday we walked up to the salon at our little cross-roads, and they called in the specialist, who did a number on us: $3 for a cut and shampoo for KUF and worth every penny of it, don't you think? And $1.50 (US) for me – I think you'll agree I got my money's worth – about 1/8th of an inch left, in every direction. Next time I think I'll try to sweet-talk Phumi into doing mine with the electric scissors we bought; more . . . stylin', don't you think? What do you think my chances are?

The picture shows our bedroom behind us, with the mosquito netting over the beds (really not very necessary yet, and we have the departed PCV groups used mosquito netting velcroed to the windows as screens, but even one of the little fellows is annoying; we don't have much fear of malaria – its not very prevalent here, and we take Meflaquin every Saturday morning), the bedside table we made from the box the electric oven came in, and our precious lamps. (Actually the lamps don't work that well – we're each asleep within about 2 minutes of getting in bed, often with the light still on.)

Some have expressed concern about the effect on us of the shutdown of your government, but, remember, we are volunteers, we get only a living allowance, so cutting off funding wouldn't pay to polish Ted Cruz's or John Boehner's shoes. But going on furlough – that would have been nice! We were advised Monday afternoon by text message (the means of communication when they want us to know something, because text messages, to phones, get through, whereas emails are a sometime proposition) that furloughs would not be “required” of overseas personnel, and that we should keep up the good work. Oh, well. Thanks all the same. Hope they get it figured out before someone notices. We can tell from emails from family and friends, and some NY Times headlines, its making a difference back home. Sorry.

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